Stop paying attention to what your ex says and means. Instead, focus on what they do to accurately gauge their attraction. — There’s a growing trend of guides helping people decipher the meaning behind their ex’s words so they can more easily gauge their overall attraction. You’ve probably come across a few already. These guides go on to explain that when your ex tells you they hate you, it means they only…

It could be our thinking about our relationship that’s flawed, and not necessarily the relationship itself. — A lot of people have a romantic view of relationships, especially those from younger generations or those with a burning desire to get back with their ex. …

We’re all terrible at evaluating our ex’s overall attractiveness objectively. Whether we’ve just started interacting with them or we’ve already been dating for weeks or months, we’re horrible at this — always have been. We usually hoist our ex up on a pedestal, praise their personality as if it was…

I’ve been working with people who want to get their ex back for over five years now, had three major breakups myself, and chased and pursued after one of my exes for almost a year, only to fail spectacularly. I’ve made every mistake in the book, and I’ve seen other…

Some words of wisdom for the heartbroken who wish they would suffer less. Always have a support system in place. Always be part of a community you care about, and that cares about you. Always get professional help. …

When you’re going through a breakup, it can be tough to resist the temptation to contact your ex. You may think that reaching out will somehow change their mind and get them back. However, this is never the case. Contacting an ex who dumped you almost always repels them. Below…

Is your rekindled relationship healthy or not? Get your answer here, with this eye-opening guide to cultivating healthy relationships. — Over the years, I got hundreds of emails from people who just got back with their ex or found someone better asking how a healthy relationship looks like. Some wanted to double-check if their relationship was actually healthy. Others already knew that it wasn’t and simply wanted to know how…

Here are six simple yet harsh truths about getting an ex back that no one tells you about. For the most part, because they don’t sell. — Note: this is an excerpt from my most popular piece: How To Get Your Ex Back And Actually Keep Them. It had received so much love and praise that I figured it’s a good idea to repost it as a shorter, standalone article. Enjoy. Below are five simple yet harsh…

Learn how to deal with uncertainty effectively and grow into a more resilient and less shitty person despite your breakup. — The period following a breakup is one of mind-numbing uncertainty. Will my ex come back? Will they move on to someone else? Will I be able to get my life in order? Will I ever meet anyone better — someone, who will love me the same way my ex did…