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Give Yourself Permission To Fail

Let yourself fuckup from time to time when dealing with a breakup. You’re human, after all. Perhaps all too human.

Max Jancar
2 min readApr 21, 2024

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As part of The Breakthrough Letter, every week I send out a short email with one idea, one suggestion, and one resource to help you break through your breakup and create a new possibility for love, either with your ex or someone new.

Here’s this week’s edition.

Today’s Idea:

Don’t expect yourself to go through the breakup recovery process without any setbacks. It’s impossible.

Perfection like this is a mirage, a dumb myth that only brings disappointment if believed in. Don’t fall for it.

Instead, let yourself fuckup from time to time. Give yourself permission to fail. You’re human, after all. Perhaps all too human.

Today’s Suggestion:

Maybe one day, instead of sticking to the gym and your new diet, you go crazy with Netflix and chocolate cake and forget all about maintaining your healthy habits.

Or perhaps instead of going to your regular therapy session, you get shitfaced and proceed to fucking your ugly, fat neighbor just to feel something again. Only to wake up the next…

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Max Jancar
Max Jancar

Written by Max Jancar

Author, blogger, and entrepreneur. I write self-help advice for people going through heartbreak. Get my free cheat sheets: https://maxjancar.com/cheat-sheets

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