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Is Getting Back With An Ex Actually A Good Idea?
Most people aren’t ready nor qualified to get back with their ex. But are you the exception? Read this letter to get closer to an answer.
As part of The Breakthrough Letter, every week I send out a short email with one idea, one suggestion, and one resource to help you break through your breakup and create a new possibility for love, either with your ex or someone new.
Here’s this week’s edition.
Today’s Idea:
Most people shouldn’t try to get back with their ex. That’s because an average person seldom mends things and usually only prolongs their healing through trying.
The only people qualified for the feat are those who a) are unattached to whether or not they get back with their ex, b) are content and happy with themselves, even when single, and c) know that if they do mend their relationship, it would be a healthy one.
Today’s Suggestion:
Take a moment to brainstorm why you would want your ex back. Are you afraid of being single? Are you devastated and lonely without them? Do you think you’re inadequate to find or will never find anyone better?
