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The Real Reason Why Your Ex Is Cold And How To Warm Them Up

Dive into the reasons behind your ex’s cold behaviors and discover actionable steps to help you mend your relationship.

Max Jancar
11 min readAug 9, 2024

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Why is my ex so cold and heartless? Why is my ex so distant and aloof? They’ve never acted this way when we were together. It’s like they’re a completely different person now. I can hardly recognize them!

Sound familiar?

When my ex first became this way, I was utterly baffled. How could the affectionate and loving person who once adored me now show such apparent indifference? I had no clue what I had done to cause this shift and didn’t see it coming at all.

Naturally, I did what most people do in this situation: I asked my ex what the hell was wrong. When their answers didn’t satisfy me, I kept asking. Then I started begging, pleading, and begging some more.

In hindsight, I realize my biggest mistake wasn’t the begging and pleading — it was something far more critical…

Whether you saw it coming or it hit you out of the blue, you’re likely left wondering: how did it get to this point? Is your ex still the same person you once loved? How did they transform from warm and carefree to cold, guarded, or even hostile?

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Max Jancar

Author, blogger, and entrepreneur. I write self-help advice for people going through heartbreak. Get my free cheat sheets: https://maxjancar.com/cheat-sheets